Summer can be magical, yes. But let’s be real—it also means juggling work, non-stop snack requests, piles of laundry, and the constant sound of “I’m bored” echoing through your house. So, how do you actually enjoy summer without burning out by mid-June?
We’ve got you. Here are 5 simple ways to dial down the overwhelm and reclaim your summer sanity:
1. Share the Load—You Weren’t Meant to Do This Alone
Let go of the “super-parent” pressure. If grandparents, neighbors, or older siblings offer to help—say yes. Carpooling to sports camps, setting up rotating playdates with other families, or even just asking your partner to handle dinner duty one night a week can give you the breathing room you need. You’re not slacking—you’re smart.
YMCA Tip: Need a consistent break? Enroll your child in a YMCA summer program like Summer Day Camp or Youth Sports. You’ll get time to reset while they stay active, social, and safe.
2. Simple Routines are Your Friend
You don’t need a color-coded binder or Pinterest-perfect plan. A simple daily routine (posted where everyone can see it) helps cut down on decision fatigue and makes life more predictable for both you and your kids. Think: meal times, quiet times, outside play, and screen time—all on a loose loop.
Visual schedules or checklists can be lifesavers for little ones. They keep the day moving and give you fewer things to repeat. (Yes, you really did say “put on your shoes” three times already.)
3. Don't Forget Your Recharge Time
“Self-care is how you take your power back.”
—Lalah Delia
We know: “self-care” can sound laughable when the house is a disaster and you haven’t sat down since breakfast. But even short breaks—five quiet minutes on the porch, a solo walk around the block, or a hot coffee that doesn’t need to be microwaved twice—can help reset your brain and your patience.
You can’t pour from an empty cup, and your well-being matters just as much as your kids’ schedules.
4. Embrace the Beauty of “Good Enough” Days
Not every moment needs to be structured. Not every day has to be productive. And it’s okay if your kids are bored sometimes (actually, it’s good for them). Let go of the pressure to plan every second of summer.
Lowering the bar doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re adapting. And your kids don’t need perfect. They just need you, present and not totally frazzled.
You’ve Got This, Kandiyohi County Parents!
Parenting is one of the most rewarding (and exhausting) jobs out there. But with a little support, some realistic routines, and permission to let go of perfection, you can reduce the overwhelm—and actually enjoy summer with your kids.